Sunday, August 16, 2015

time flies - even if it isn't all fun

Summer is basically over.  The kids start school Wednesday.

We have made it through the summer and overall I think we have survived.  There have been some fun times, and some hard times, as you might expect, but overall we have made it.

Now it is time to start another chapter.  

School.  

For the last 15 years I have participated very little in the education of my boys.  Even though Alisa couldn't spell*, she still helped all the kids with their spelling.  Occasionally I "helped" James with his math, but even that ended with impatience.  I think Alisa knew this would be a tough transition and so she made me promise to hire a nanny, someone that would be home each day after school, help the kids with their homework and music, and get them off to their activities, so that when I got home, we could focus on other (less frustrating) activities.

Alisa used to get her Social Security letter in the mail, (the one that estimates how much you will get when you retire), and plan how I should spend the $1000/month she was entitled to.  I didn't have the heart to tell her there was no chance she was going to get that much.  So she budgeted for us to get a nanny, and I promised I would.  

It might be too early to tell (the nanny doesn't start till August 31st), but I believe we were "lucky**" to find this person.  When I posted what we were looking for, I had hoped to get at least 2 or 3 candidates, it turned out that only one person applied, and she is perfect for the job.  I guess this could be wishful thinking, but only time will tell.

This past month has been whirlwind of activity.

soccer coaching certification - Josh
soccer camp - Luke
marked generation day camp (http://www.markedgeneration.org/) - James, Sam, Luke
Johnson grandparents moved to Germany
Lava Hot springs - Johnson family (this was super fun)
Scout camp (Uintah backpacking trip) - James (due to a lack of planning on my part, he ended up with a pack that weighed over 30% of his total body weight, luckily it was only a 2 mile hike in, oh wait, it was 6 miles.  Sorry James.)
baptism - Truman
Alice In Wonderland Jr. - Savannah and Rachel
hired a Nanny - Sydney
Camp Kesem (http://campkesem.org/byu)- James, Sam, Luke - This is a free camp for kids whose parents have cancer.  They went last year for the first time, and it is amazing.
home alone - Josh (watched a couple movies with some friends, and tried to recreate Alisa's bookshelf design from our old house, didn't quite turn out the same, yet, but the TV is bigger.)

The current state of my project

Alisa's project (the TV is strategically hidden behind the family picture)
Isn't she beautiful...


*One time Alisa was helping Sam with his spelling home work and he had the word "both" on the list.  He has to spell each word correctly and submit it online to finish so he has Alisa check each word so he doesn't have to do the whole thing over.  She came to his spelling of "both" and said "Sam, sound it out, what are you missing?"  Sam, "hmm. booolllth"  Alisa, "that's right"  Sam, "so I need to add an L?"  Alisa "Yep"  Sam changes "both" to "bolth" and it the only word he get wrong.  He made her do the entire thing. (This was probably the funniest conversation I've ever listened to in my life)-James

**by lucky I mean a blessing or miracle.  Again, maybe to early to tell, but I certainly feel that way now.

11 comments:

  1. I don't ever begin to imagine your feelings and what your going through. I can see your doing a great job amongst missing beautiful Alisa, so many changes and so many firsts. I think if you often and I really miss her blogging , your writing is awesome and I look forward to your posts.

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  2. I don't ever begin to imagine your feelings and what your going through. I can see your doing a great job amongst missing beautiful Alisa, so many changes and so many firsts. I think if you often and I really miss her blogging , your writing is awesome and I look forward to your posts.

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  4. I don't think luck has anything to do with you finding the perfect nanny. I'm pretty sure Alisa hand picked her and sent her your way!! And good for you guys but i can also say you guys will be good for her!

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  5. I'm happy for you to get a nanny! You will do good with helping the boys and you will learn alot as well. I am sure she picked your help and I'm sure she picked the kids teachers as well you are strong . Do trust your self you will do good.lots to learn about Jr high. Your a good Dad you will be able to make the right choice and do good
    Have fun this school year

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  6. A couple of comments:

    - Why would you go all the way to Sydney to find a nanny???

    - Organized-by-color book shelf thing...I guess it must be a Johnson thing since we have the same pattern at home!

    Keep up the good work Josh. Come to NY whenever you want.
    Xavier

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  7. I'm glad you found a good nanny, but I'm sad I won't get to hang out with your boys as regularly! They are the best. And so are you, josh. Alisa would be so proud of you.

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  8. I color codes my bookshelf before Alisa died. It makes me think of her every time I see it. ❤❤❤

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  9. We went visiting teaching on Sunday to your old house. I sat looking at the bookshelves thinking how beautiful they were color-coded. I love that you posted this picture of Alisa in front of them. It is one of my favorite memories of her. We love you. Our heart hurts at your sad times and smiles at your happy ones. You are navigating this with such strength Josh.

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  10. Good post! I'm so glad you found a nanny...that's important. I can understand how much you miss Alisa...so bad it aches. I'm always praying for strength and comfort for you and your boys. You're an amazing guy, Josh!

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  11. Josh you don't know me but I followed Alisa's blog for a while and have been following yours.
    I am impressed with your faith and courage. I believe Heavenly Father is allowing Alisa to contiunue being an influence in you and your boy's lives.
    My daughter Corinne helped organize the first Camp Kesem in Utah County and her sister, Camille was a counselor there. (She is a certified Social Worker and has worked a lot with struggling youth.)
    I agree with you, it is a great camp. I'm sure James, Sam, and Luke were blessed by attending.

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